I’ve definitely noticed a trend among my clients that they are becoming more and more stressed as the holiday season progresses. With money being tighter than usual but still feeling the need to cross everyone off their holiday gift list, people seem to be feeling stretched thin. Some have also expressed anxiety at wanting to be able to see everyone in theirs and their partner’s family, but are worried about the stress of holiday travel.
If your family has a tendency to go overboard on gift-giving, perhaps suggest a budget that everyone subscribes to. You might also propose the notion of a “Secret Santa” type format where each person buys for only one person. That way everyone still receives a present, but you don’t have to break the bank.
However you decide to handle the gift-giving side of the holidays, remember to always give from your heart and that there is absolutely nothing wrong with spending only within your means. If your sister who goes overboard every year on presents is truly in the holiday spirit, she should have no problem accepting gifts that are less expensive than the ones she is giving.
Most importantly, remember to make time for yourself this holiday season. I know it is the season of giving, but remember to give love to yourself. Step away from the consumerism of it all and do something peaceful for yourself. Sit by the fire and read a book, go for a brisk walk in the cool weather, and at that Buy-One-Get-One-Free Sale, give that free sweater to yourself!